How can somebody go from being cheated on, to being non-monogamous? What is Relationship Anarchy? And what do you do when you realise that society’s ideas and expectations surrounding relationships don’t make sense to you?
Kira Williams (they/them) is a genderqueer trans woman, a critical human geographer and a post-doctoral fellow at the University of Waterloo in Canada. Their research focuses on international migration, political geography and analytical methodology. You can find out more about them at their personal website: https://sites.google.com/view/kiraandreawilliams/.
In this episode, we explore ideas of relationship norms, what it’s like when you don’t subscribe to society’s ideas about romantic relationships, and how Kira’s relationship with a woman who cheated on them led them to realise they were non-monogamous. This episode originally intended to look into why people cheat, but instead took me down a completely different road – why don’t some people cheat? What keeps people monogamous? And what about those who don’t conform to those expectations?